My Passion is Helping You Find Abundance and Happiness in Your Life
I can help you create balance and abundance for you and your family.
I know all too well how difficult it can be trying to balance family, a career and business, physical health, emotions, and money.
Many women are constantly trying to get ahead while remaining stuck. As women, we know that we need to take care of ourselves, but we tend to put everyone else first. Did you know that this is out of alignment and by living our lives like this, we will never truly move forward?
But how do we get results then? I thought we get ahead by helping others? It is so easy to get caught up in the “what do I do first in order to create REAL change in my life”?
I know where to start! we have to start with changing ourselves in order to move forward in our lives. Many times we want to say, when someone else changes, then I will change. We must be willing to do the work ourselves in order to bust through our blocks.
Do you have feelings of shame and sadness when you take a look at your life?
Do you feel like you are in the same place you were last year?
Are you ready to make changes?
Deep down, is your intuition telling you that you need to do something different?
Do you feel stuck when you think of what step to take first?
So many women feel completely STUCK in their lives!
The good news is that you do not have to stay stuck!
I’m here to help!
About Vanessa Schellenberg – Transformational Life Strategist
My ultimate goal and mission in life is to help women get unstuck in their lives. I have had the ability to do this in my own life and I want to help you do the same!
My Story of Transformation
Today, I am a happy, thriving, married mother of three beautiful children. I am a Certified Transformational Life Strategist and I live the life of my dreams! I travel internationally at least 3 times per year, I work when I want to, I attract beautiful soul mate clients to work with me, I have an amazing marriage and I love my life!!
But… I haven’t always lived a life of abundance, balance or happiness. I lived a life of unhappiness. My life was filled with depression, sadness and many lows. I had turned 26 and for as long as I had known, I had been depressed. Each day was incredibly hard to get out of bed. Some days I laid on the couch and watched over 8 hours of TV, when I was supposed to be at school or other important priorities.
I let the days go by in a blur of fast food, TV, fights with my boyfriend, complaining and a deep sadness in my life.
I didn’t know any different, I lashed out in anger at everyone around me, especially my 5 year old daughter. She would yell at me and scream when I tried to put her to bed, she couldn’t concentrate in school and spent all of her waking hours watching movies in her bedroom by herself.
One day, I realized that I was stuck, completely and utterly paralyzed by fear! I did not know how to get unstuck, but I knew that I wanted to truly LOVE my life!! I had to make a change, many changes actually.
I started the changes by breaking up with my boyfriend of 6 years. I knew our relationship was based on dysfunction, so I asked him to leave. It was then that I realized how far I had actually sunk down in my life.
It was bad!! I was $100,000 in debt beyond my mortgage. I could not go to work as an RN because it was shift work and I had no one to baby sit my daughter. I was 26 and facing bankruptcy. I was 50 pounds overweight. I finally admitted I had depression and went on antidepressants. My daughter started taking medications for her ADHD. I was broken emotionally, mentally, spiritually, financially and physically.
At some point my intuition kicked in and I started to pray. I remember crying and praying, asking the Creator for help! The universe guided me and I listened for the first time in my life. I spent time at bookstores reading self improvement and abundance books.
Fast forward 3 years and here I am today. I am living my dream life! I no longer suffer from depression, my daughter no longer suffers from ADHD. I am happily married to my amazing husband Elliott. We blended our families, my stepson and my daughter to create our family. We added a baby girl in 2013. We bought a beautiful home together, bought my husband his dream car, and paid off our debt. I have lost 40 pounds and kept it off. We retired my husband in 2014, he is now the primary caregiver for our children. I recently quit working fulltime as a registered nurse at the hospital.
I have learned from my profession as a nurse and my personal experience that pills alone don’t cure people. Healing takes place mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically. I became a Transformational Life Strategist because I changed my own life, I got myself unstuck.
This is how I did it
- I learned from people that I knew could help me.
- I hired high end coaches.
- I implemented what I learned into my life on a daily basis.
- I practiced the law of action.
- I read self improvement and abundance books.
- I invested money into courses that taught me how to help others holistically.
- I took chances in my life and invested in myself.
- I followed my intuition.
I know within my heart and soul that I am being called to help women create a life of balance and abundance. To help women break through the fear and create the life of their dreams!